Both my wife Katie and I were desperate to reduce our weight, so we had a little heart to heart about why we wanted to be thinner, and what that would mean to us. Our little tete-a-tete revealed a rather basic wish-list. As far as my wife was concerned, she wanted more get-up-and-go when the kids wanted to do things. Also, she wanted to feel more confident revealing herself to me.
My main wish was to be able to purchase clothes that fit properly! Also, as our home is on 3 levels, I just longed to be able to reach the top floor and not feel my heart pounding violently!
Whilst going through this introspection, we discovered that it wasn't just about how we look, but also about how much we valued ourselves. We have much less respect for ourselves when we increase in weight. It's very common to see weight reduction as the solution to a happy life. We wholeheartedly acknowledge these feelings, and want to share some findings with you.
Psychologists understand that we have a subconscious mind, which doesn't recognise the difference between a real thing and an imaginary thing. And therefore our subconscious transfers its most vividly perceived information into our conscious - imaginary or otherwise! Repeat a concept often enough and that surfaces as the overriding idea.
Just how long have we been re-affirming the concept of how fat we are? A re-programming of our sub-conscious is what's needed - so it works for us and not against us.
It makes sense to zone in on the happy things we'll be able to do when we've lost the weight. The difficulties seem more worthwhile then. We started off with all the things we'd like to do or have more of: Things like dancing, flirting, swimming, having fun, soccer, running with the kids, volley ball, cycling, sun-bathing and feeling relaxed sitting in a hot tub.
And then we visualised trips away, wearing lovely summer outfits. Others smiled and welcomed us where-ever we went. We truly started to live...
Accordingly, both of us are a lot lighter and fitter - though not as thin as rakes! We're feeling great and can honestly say the fun is back!
My main wish was to be able to purchase clothes that fit properly! Also, as our home is on 3 levels, I just longed to be able to reach the top floor and not feel my heart pounding violently!
Whilst going through this introspection, we discovered that it wasn't just about how we look, but also about how much we valued ourselves. We have much less respect for ourselves when we increase in weight. It's very common to see weight reduction as the solution to a happy life. We wholeheartedly acknowledge these feelings, and want to share some findings with you.
Psychologists understand that we have a subconscious mind, which doesn't recognise the difference between a real thing and an imaginary thing. And therefore our subconscious transfers its most vividly perceived information into our conscious - imaginary or otherwise! Repeat a concept often enough and that surfaces as the overriding idea.
Just how long have we been re-affirming the concept of how fat we are? A re-programming of our sub-conscious is what's needed - so it works for us and not against us.
It makes sense to zone in on the happy things we'll be able to do when we've lost the weight. The difficulties seem more worthwhile then. We started off with all the things we'd like to do or have more of: Things like dancing, flirting, swimming, having fun, soccer, running with the kids, volley ball, cycling, sun-bathing and feeling relaxed sitting in a hot tub.
And then we visualised trips away, wearing lovely summer outfits. Others smiled and welcomed us where-ever we went. We truly started to live...
Accordingly, both of us are a lot lighter and fitter - though not as thin as rakes! We're feeling great and can honestly say the fun is back!
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